Confronted by what it’s like to be a child in state care

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Watching this video you can see my emotions. In some way I felt as helpless as the children in state care involved in these critical incidents that I was reading about. 

“April 27: Two wards got into a fight after a rap session. One girl came behind the other with a broken wine glass and stabbed her over the eye. The other twisted her hand around and forced her to stab herself in the face.”

Some of these children don’t have the capacity to articulate or express how helpless they are, because they don’t know who they can trust. 

Children helpless, don’t know who to trust

You can clearly see my anger, which is not an emotion I wanted to see recorded, but in combination with what other people were feeling, it really humbled me.

As I continued to read, that anger was followed by frustration that all this time you have kids placed in a state care, which is a position where one would think that it would be for their safety, well-being and best interests.

What stands out for me is how brave these kids are to tell their story. Especially painful is that secrecy places guilt on the victim by leaving it on them to break that silence. Can you imagine being so young, experiencing all of what they have, and still having hope, no matter how small, that in speaking out some change will come?

Traumatic incidents scar for life

When they have to re-tell their story, it is so painful. It is like going through it all over again. Being scarred for life is what you don’t get over, and if these if incidents are not resolved then when they become like us, adults, they will always carry that trauma with them.

As an attorney at Jamaicans for Justice (JFJ) advocating for children, I am happy to be in a position to make a difference, but it is heavy. If you asked me to describe it I could only say, ‘It’s a lot’.

JFJ hopeful of improving situation 

There is a constant contemplation; I am constantly tangled in that. And there are compounded issues where a child goes from being a victim to becoming an offender and you sometimes don’t know where to start.

Yet I am actually confident that there will be change, that the work that will be put in this time around will certainly bring about the change and structure that is needed. There are a lot of barriers that we need to be broken, but I am confident that we are moving in the right direction

Many people don’t want to face this problem. These children are put away in institutions that are ill-equipped to serve their needs. Sometimes to protect a system we find that information about children’s lived experiences and the trauma they face is not passed around readily as it should be.”

Jamaica must face the realities these children do

Then you have management or personnel at the institutions, and the way how blame is distributed and situations are managed is not indicative of the reality these children face

We as adults are not in the situation of powerlessness that these children are in. We can only hope that despite what some of them have been through, that when we see them smile even for a short time, that it is real. I think they can only escape their situation if they get some redress and their situation changes – and that is what this work by JFJ is about.

UNICEF and Jamaicans for Justice (JFJ) have forged a new partnership to address improvements needed for children in state care. As part of the initiative, JFJ is undertaking the most comprehensive study of its kind to examine the state care landscape in Jamaica, including quality of care for wards of the state. 

The Children Inside: Incidents In State Care [Part 1]

Are you ready to know what happens in children's homes? These are real incidents affecting children in state care facilities uncovered by Jamaicans For Justice (JFJ). In Part 1 of this series, JFJ asked adults to read some of the over 1,600 incidents we documented at JFJ. Take a look at their reactions. Important: Incidents have many causes and do not always mean that facilities are abusing children. In fact, many children have thrived in State Care. However, based on global research, we now know that growing up in an institution puts children at greater risk of harm. These incidents show us just how vulnerable kids truly are.To help address this issue, Jamaicans for Justice has launched a new project to help children living in state care in partnership with UNICEF. To learn more, visit jamaicansforjustice.org. #ChildrenInStateCare

Posted by Unicef Jamaica on Saturday, June 30, 2018

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  1. I grew up in children’s/girls home so I can relate. If you want better for your children government homes is the worst place to send them in a sense. On the other hand these places gives opportunity but it up to you to grab it, not sure about now cause am 30 years of age now left when i was 16 in and out of children’s home from i was three. I was at Hanbury children’s home
    Granville place of safety
    Windsor girls home
    and Mary’s child for pregnant teenager’s got pregnant while i was at Windsor girls home not a staff tho we use to sneak out

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  2. I am just being disturbed of the comments made against care givers know one take the time out to even commend us on the difficult taste we carried out daily . The abused n disrespectful we face from the children we are taking care of . We nuture ,we love and care for them .these children damage by their parents and family and society blame us for it .persons who claims they care about these children only came on media put us down. I am working at a facility for 12 yrs , I have never seen one of the representative or those who called them self advocate visited the children.we the caregiver dedicated ourself ,abound on our family to take care of these children,yet we are seen as the enemies to the children. I know my job is ungrateful , but I will continue to do the best I can ,for my reward come from god almighty .

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